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Your love is my drug

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"There's a lot of research showing that laughter has an impact on illness. It releases endorphins and relieves pain." ~Janice Hein

"As to you, your scent – it's like a drug to me. You're like my own personal brand of heroin." ~Edward Cullen, Twilight
"Romantic love is an addiction," said Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist. "My guess is that our modern addictions -- nicotine, drugs, sex, gambling -- are simply hijacking this ancient brain pathway that evolved millions of years ago, that evolved for romantic love. ... The brain system evolved to focus your energy on an individual and start the mating process." 
What are endorphins and what do they do?  
They chemicals that are released in your brain under certain conditions. Endorphins are an opiate, and effect your brain in the same way that morphine does.  It is the chemical responsible for "natural high".
More commonly it is known as the ''feel-good'' chemical, the reason we feel happy. But there are many different ways of influencing the level of endorphins in our bodies, some healthy, and some not so much. You might be surprised... 
Healthy ones: Exercise, sex, playing with pets, favorite colors, activities, sunlight, spending time with friends and family, repetitive motions (such as knitting or sewing), singing, dancing, bath, eating spicy food, nature, laughing, crying, tickling, vibrations.

Unhealthy: Arguing, reliving confrontations over and over in your head, picking at hangnails, pimples, scabs, excessive exercise, repetitive obsessive compulsive behavior, sugar, caffeine, alcohol, causing yourself physical pain, being late, rushing to meet a deadline.

Sound familiar?  If you are engaging in any of these, it is because the endorphin chemicals in your brain are low, and you are subconsciously trying to increase it. Our bodies know what they need, but they do not always know the right way to get it.

The term endorphin rush has been adopted in popular speech to refer to feelings of exhilaration brought on by pain, danger, or stress. Immediately after injury, endorphins allow animals to feel a sense of power and control over themselves that allows them to persist with activity for an extended time.


Now that we got that part out of the way, let's think.
If endorphins are a natural drug in our bodies, why is the fact that we can get addicted to it so surprising? Almost any of the activities I mentioned above is open to addiction. Anything overdone, even the most healthiest thing ever, can become harmful. Love, sex, exercise, coffee to name a few obvious ones.

As for exercise, intense workouts cause an increase in endorphin levels. Our bodies make endorphins whenever we exert ourselves, and the higher levels probably help us better tolerate physical pain and discomfort, perhaps they help with emotional pain, too? 

What about love addictions?
From looking at the brain scans of the broken-hearted, researchers found that recovering from a break-up is like a kicking an addiction to a drug. 
"Nobody gets out of love alive," Fisher said. "You turn into a menace or a pest when you've been rejected. That's when people stalk or commit suicide. ... There's a very powerful brain system that has a dramatic effect on your entire life." 

It seems quite interesting that such opposite emotions such as love and anger, generate the same chemical response in our body? Curious. 
So which emotion do we seek? Love is complicated. It carries responsibilities, fears, expectations. But its opposite? Fast, easy. And has the same effect. Curious. It is always easier to go for the lower emotion. Always easier to kneel down than to reach up. 

Let's not confuse between what is right and what is easy. Let's not be lazy and always reach for the top. And learn how to find happiness in its most natural and pure ways.



http://www.recoverfromdepression.com/endorphins.htm
http://abcnews.go.com/Technology/addicted-love-brain/story?id=11110866&page=2
http://www.sexual-addiction.net/what_is_sexual_addiction.php
http://www.womenfitness.net/exercise_addiction.htm
http://abcnews.go.com/Technology/addicted-love-brain/story?id=11110866
2 comments:

so if its like a drug, is love bad then and should be illigal..? :)


I like this endorphins...and without love, you can take more endorphines doing sport :P


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